Index: drbd/drbd_receiver.c
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--- drbd/drbd_receiver.c	(revision 4063)
+++ drbd/drbd_receiver.c	(working copy)
@@ -2167,6 +2171,10 @@
 			drbd_send_state(mdev);
 		}
 	}
+	else if (nconn == Connected && peer_state.disk == Negotiating) {
+		// peer is waiting for us to respond...
+		drbd_send_state(mdev);
+	}
 
 	spin_lock_irq(&mdev->req_lock);
 	os = mdev->state;